FRIENDSHIP

Friendship

 Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between two or more people while a friend is someone you talk too regularly; you have a very close connection to and can turn to. Friendship makes people love each other, so is love. Friendship makes people enjoy the beauty of life, so is happiness. Friendship enriches peoples’ soul, so is wealth. Friendship cools you down in hard times, so is a treasure. Friendship brightens our life when in darkness, so is light and also friendship helps us solve our inner soul matters, so is a solution.

A group of friends having some good time together

 In making a friend, there are three significant factors that make the formation of friendship possible, a proximity which means being near enough to see each other or do things together; repeatedly encountering the person informally and without making special plans to see each other; and opportunities to share ideas and personal feelings with each other. 

   

Proximity in friendship.

 As a human being, you cannot spend your whole life without a friend whether is good or bad. Every growing step you took until now you must be having or have had a friend or a group of friends who might have been good or bad to you in any way, and that is when questions such as, “how can I be able to change perspective and wisely due to friends?”, how can friends influence changes in my life?” arise. Well, these questions and others similar to those ones can only be figured out when one knows and understands the real meaning of friendship.

The real fact about having a friendship

 There are three kinds of friendship; first is the friendship of utility whereby it exists between you and someone who is useful to you in some way. For example, perhaps you are friendly with your classmate mainly because he/she helps you figure out some academic issues and if you never run out of credit, you pretend to fix his/her money problems. These are friendships of the “you scratch my back, I scratch your back” kind.

Friendship of utility.   

 Second is the friendship of pleasure which exists between you and those whose company you enjoy. Often, these are activity buddies; people with whom you do things like playing soccer, having some good times together and going out for a walk. Friendships of pleasure come about because we do like some or many aspects of the friend.

Friendship of pleasure.

     The third is the friendship of the goodness which is based on mutual respect and admiration. These friendships take longer to build than the other two kinds, but they are also more powerful and enduring. They often arise when two people recognize that they have similar values and goals; that they have similar visions for how the world or at least their lives should be.

Friendship of the goodness. 

 We need to be careful when choosing a friend. There are selfish ones, best ones, thefts, money minders and so much more. You can get a friend who will love the way you are without being concerned with your status; you can get a jealous one or a hypocrite so that he can lead you to the wrong ways so that you will not be able to take a step ahead. Often this kind of friends appears to be mostly in schools, colleges and even in the hood. Do not refuse when advised by a friend, but you have to take that advice by analyzing and interpreting it in order to give you the positivity to base your decisions upon clear principles and analysis.

Being ignored and isolated by friends.

   

 It is wide open that you cannot be loved by all, so once ignored, do not be broken-hearted or give up but be thankful for everything you are going through because however, it helps you to learn something constructive from your experiences by developing the fortitude and finesse to face and handle issues.

Be stable, strong and learn a lesson from all the things you experienced.